Monday, May 17, 2004
Monday 16th May 11.45pm
I blew my top during discussion today and gave Yong Ching a piece of my mind… I really loose my cool over his behavior but then again, tell me someone in the group who is not mad at him.
We told him specifically over the last meeting on Friday what he was required to do so as to avoid confusion of duties and responsibilities, and his blaming of us for not involving him, not listening to what he has to say...We even took pain taking turns to draw out the organizational structure in which he was to based his part on.. but in the end his was anything but what we were looking for. It was only with Qianyi's help i was able to covered his part last night.
We did not even want to make a fuss over his part because we were all aware that time wasn't on our side, with a skit due the very next day, two projects at the end of the week and a 3 hr paper on friday.. but he wouldn't let issues rest and there we were trying to move on with our work and pacify him until i exploded..
On hindsight perhaps i really should have gotten more of a grip on myself, what is the point of directing my anger when it won't help resolve issues.
I always had been an impulsive person, tending to act sometimes without taking into consideration of other people's feeling only to feel guilty after the whole episode, and today the side of me surfaced... haha well i just hope i will be able to better manage such conflicts in the future better...
Other than that incident, the day went on quite normally just that the pace was much faster than last week but it wasn't till 6 plus before our group was able to finished up discussing for the skit.
JIONG TING ♥
Monday, May 17, 2004
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